Nairaland Forum Welcome, Guest: Thursday, 08 November at Help pls, cos my mind is so heavy and its affecting my relationship with him as i look at him and feel disgusted at times. Dont want to confront him as he closed up one the last time i did, only to use another name later.
He is bored with you. Well,u just have to confront him in a peacful way. He has to know ur feelings towards it and he has to stop.
I mean,this is a subtle way of cheating.
He is flirting with women online,and its only a matter of time that habit would diffuse to the real world if it hasn't already. When he is ready, send him your pic. If both of you are mature enough, you can take it as an opportunity to laugh about it and put a little bit of online flirting in your relationship.
If he is mad that you are flirting online and sending your pic to strangers, confront him.
You can also go the easy way, shout and give him trouble until the guy get some sense into his head. Where did you meet him?
I bet the same dating site. Is there any anomaly in meeting her hubby in a dating site? Most people on dating sites enjoy that type of dating because of certain insecurities.
They are also most likely to be addicted to the thrill of dating an anonymous person, who can be anything in this world as per real physical description. If she met him there, chances are high that she was not the first and she won't be last.
Yeah,i agree with everything u said except the last sentence. He met her there and it didn't end right there,they got married. So,the purpose of dating online has been achieved.
Going back to the site would be cheating and only an ungrateful randy man would do that. If he hangs out on dating sites, then he's simply not happy with you. So make him happy. For a man to go on a dating site and discover its advantages. Chances are he won't stop it.
It is like putting a kid in a candy store. Dating so many people at once is so easy and discreet. And there are so many criminals or dysfunctional people on the internet with fake profiles.
I don't know how she truly trusted him, except they had a fast wedding and she didn't get the time to know him. All she can do is communicate maturely how she truly feels about it all.
And offer to help him get over the addiction either by counselling or just blocking dating sites on all their electronic items. After cathcing him one time, and then again, I would NOT have taken it easy. I would NOT sit down in a nice way and "explain how I feel". I would be yelling at the top of my lounges, telling him to find another house to sleep in until he get his damn head together. Tell him to go to his cousins or something.