First of all, for spanking there needs to be consent. However, if your wife demands it… than you need to do it: So it took me quite some time to figure out, but I really need a man to lead me.
Most men in my life before meeting mark would not do this, however. At best, it was a split. With Mark I finally found someone to lead me. It took some time and I know that at times he still felt this was all quite deviant and depraved. However, Belt husband spank their who wife gives me the leadership I crave. Domestic submission and spanking have so many facades to me.
Not only is it erotic and turns me on; it makes me happy and stops my mood changes. For me, submitting to my man is therapeutic and it resets me from a long day with our daughter. Recently, I was really bratty and snarky over something. Without a word, Mark took me and spanked me to remind me who was controlling this household. I really needed that, and I adored him for it. I felt relieved, refocused, grounded and centered again. While Belt husband spank their who wife rarely does it like that, it is really helpful to reinstantiate peace at home.
My husband usually decides how severe my misdeeds are and chooses the right method to punish me. The main advantage is, that he can do anywhere and he does! And with his great hands, I dare to call them pranks, he can do some damage. However he does not give me more than 20 hits… he told me, his hands wore out. Mark really likes his belts to discipline me. He whips it at me when I have repeatedly not fulfilled his wishes, maybe once every three months.
And he really nows how to make me alert: You can read more about the belt he currently uses here. With a wooden paddle. My husband bought a paddle on Amazon solely to spank me. He uses it very seldomly, maybe once a year.
The last time he used it was on Christmas. It covers my butt entirely and makes me feel the punishment at least a day. Naturally, I was extra attentive to his wishes afterwards!
From time to time I like to test Mark and snap at him, or challenge him otherwise. I remember every single one of them! First of all, I get only Belt husband spank their who wife on my ass. Kneeling on the ground or on the bed, over his lap, and at a table.
But there were always occaisions for some light spankings- I had been a bad girl…. This post has received a lot of attention. However I want to stress again that I advocate for consensual spanking only — I do not condone any violent or non-consensual activities.
SpankMeVB also blogs at spankmevb. Bratness commented as well.
She and her husband parted ways recently, and she feels as if the lack of spanking in their relationship might be related to this sadly. Her story shows, that women might no even know how great a sound spanking can be. Yes have read the guide. I agreed…and we picked a date to begin.
One of the things we did was we made a short list…i think it ended up being 10… of things that really stuck out over our 20 year marriage that needed to be forgiven and forgotten. She used to get spanked from her father note that I do not advocate spanking children here!
It is, however, a perspective. As a child, I remember getting in trouble and being called to stand in front of him to accept my spankings.
Yet, I never felt abused, but rather I felt loved, protected, and well taken care of. As you read the comments, you see that long discussions have evolved.
Click here to read a detailed descriptionor go to Amazon and click here for more! We use spanking as punishment but most of the time we do it just as a fun thing. She still wants it to be done as if it were punishment. Should we establish some rules for her to follow? Like Liked by 1 person. Hey Jeremy, sorry for the late reply… my opinion: Set up some rules and test it — she will like it!: I always use my hand or a wooden paddle. And it is always done over the knee. We have had some great sex afterwards.
I do the normal maintenance and punishment spankings. We even do boot camp where Belt husband spank their who wife go Belt husband spank their who wife a secluded place. We do this at least once a year where there are multiple spankings. I even have two levels of maintenance I use.
Anyway, you and HOH should try boot camp. I can give you some ideas if you want. There is a lot of spanking. I just recently added a new rule to our boot camp. I got tired of pulling two sets of garments up and down and up and down every time I spanked.
She is now required for her bottom to remain bare at all times unless we go out.
This has helped a lot. It is also good for on the spot corrections. We just got back from a seven day seesion where she was without pants for the full duration and it all went very well.
This was not as bad as it sounds.